Tuesday, May 29, 2007
this post is dedicated to my dearest "nephew" nicknamed tytan. =)
aunty read your blog just now. i was kinda guilty cos when i talked to you on msn yesterday you still seemed alright to me. to think that i`m usually very sensitive to the feelings of others; i failed to detect any upsetted-ness in our dear tytan. aunty is sorry. tytan, just want to let you know, aunty has been down on luck, is clumsy in many things, had experienced numerous failures and faced obstacles on my way to reach for my ambitions, my dreams. similar to you in a way, perhaps, things hitted me when i was 18 too, when my life was disrupted, in a way i couldn`t accept. remember tytan, if plan A fails, you still have plan B. if plan B fails, you carry out plan C. the MOST important thing is you don`t get disheartened and don`t give up. you`ll eventually tide through. some of the things were so abrupt and we cannot accept them in a moment. that`s alright. when things don`t work out our way, we find alternatives to move on. on the way you`re bound to struggle. that`s for sure. at times you`ll think why you`re so different from your peers and you cannot find the answer. it`s common. you`re not different. you`re unique. cos you experienced more than what they`d been through. these life experiences will train you and prepare you when you step out into the society in the future days to come. not everyone can get to experience these! aunty couldn`t make it to the tip-top universities out there and i know of people who don`t either. so what? their lives are still forever so fulfilling and there are still many successful people around. so tytan, these setbacks, however cruel they may be, are important lessons! we fell and we must get up. when you`re upset, don`t bottle the emotions inside. sometimes after a cry or what, you`ll feel better and stronger than ever! show people how brave you are. life sometimes really made a fool out of us. the challenge is how we turn the "fool" into a "tool" to help us. that definitely takes time. so you must be patient. and like you say, it may be a blessing in disguise, who knows right? we won`t know till we reach the end. =)
tytan, you know aunty don`t know how to console you really well, but i hope these words help you a little! but no matter what, 我们挺你到底 k! you should know who are the "wo men". tytan, brace up and jiayou!!!
i typed this in the middle of the night just for you when you`re already in camp snoring away. aren`t you abit touched? twee-hee-hee... i guess this`s the only thing aunty can do to cheer you up abit. =)
1:40 AM
this post is dedicated to my dearest "nephew" nicknamed tytan. =)
aunty read your blog just now. i was kinda guilty cos when i talked to you on msn yesterday you still seemed alright to me. to think that i`m usually very sensitive to the feelings of others; i failed to detect any upsetted-ness in our dear tytan. aunty is sorry. tytan, just want to let you know, aunty has been down on luck, is clumsy in many things, had experienced numerous failures and faced obstacles on my way to reach for my ambitions, my dreams. similar to you in a way, perhaps, things hitted me when i was 18 too, when my life was disrupted, in a way i couldn`t accept. remember tytan, if plan A fails, you still have plan B. if plan B fails, you carry out plan C. the MOST important thing is you don`t get disheartened and don`t give up. you`ll eventually tide through. some of the things were so abrupt and we cannot accept them in a moment. that`s alright. when things don`t work out our way, we find alternatives to move on. on the way you`re bound to struggle. that`s for sure. at times you`ll think why you`re so different from your peers and you cannot find the answer. it`s common. you`re not different. you`re unique. cos you experienced more than what they`d been through. these life experiences will train you and prepare you when you step out into the society in the future days to come. not everyone can get to experience these! aunty couldn`t make it to the tip-top universities out there and i know of people who don`t either. so what? their lives are still forever so fulfilling and there are still many successful people around. so tytan, these setbacks, however cruel they may be, are important lessons! we fell and we must get up. when you`re upset, don`t bottle the emotions inside. sometimes after a cry or what, you`ll feel better and stronger than ever! show people how brave you are. life sometimes really made a fool out of us. the challenge is how we turn the "fool" into a "tool" to help us. that definitely takes time. so you must be patient. and like you say, it may be a blessing in disguise, who knows right? we won`t know till we reach the end. =)
tytan, you know aunty don`t know how to console you really well, but i hope these words help you a little! but no matter what, 我们挺你到底 k! you should know who are the "wo men". tytan, brace up and jiayou!!!
i typed this in the middle of the night just for you when you`re already in camp snoring away. aren`t you abit touched? twee-hee-hee... i guess this`s the only thing aunty can do to cheer you up abit. =)
posted by SERENiFiED PRiNCESS on 1:40 AM
